Last night, I was trying to fall asleep and started rehearsing Bible verses. During this time, the words, "Eloi, Eloi, Shabbat Shalom" started running through my mind.
These words are in Hebrew, of which I know very little, although I've heard some words and phrases through church and Bible studies. I knew that "Eloi" referred to God and "Shalom" means "peace," but I didn't know or remember what "Shabbat" means.
I looked it up this afternoon. It turns out "Shabbat Shalom" is a common greeting among Jews between sundown on Friday evening and sundown on Saturday evening. It basically means "peaceful Sabbath" or "May your day of no work be peaceful."
"Eloi" means "my God."
"Shabbat" literally means a ceasing or stopping and is the Hebrew word used to reference the Sabbath.
"Shalom" actually has more to do with being whole or complete than just being at peace. I love the definition provided by one website: "Peace, hello,
goodbye, health and wholeness, tranquility, safety, well-being, welfare, contentment,
success, comfort, wholeness, integrity, also a common greeting." (http://briangan.ms11.net/personal/dictionary.htm)
So, late on a Saturday evening, I find myself talking to God, my God, about a peaceful, whole, complete Sabbath. I'm not sure what to take from it, but being more intentional about observing the Sabbath day has crossed my mind many times recently.
Exodus 20:8-11 "Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is a Sabbath to the LORD your God. On it you shall not do any work, neither you, nor your son or daughter, nor your manservant or maidservant, nor your animals, nor the alien within your gates. For in six days the LORD made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, but he rested on the seventh day. Therefore the LORD blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy."
Deuteronomy 5:12-15 "Observe the Sabbath day by keeping it holy, as the LORD your God has commanded you. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is a Sabbath to the LORD your God. On it you shall not do any work, neither you, nor your son or daughter, nor your manservant or maidservant, nor your ox, your donkey, or any of your animals, nor the alien within your gates, so that your manservant and maidservant may rest, as you do. Remember that you were slaves in Egypt and that the LORD your God brought you out of there with a mighty hand and an outstretched arm. Therefore the LORD your God has commanded you to observe the Sabbath day."
Genesis 2:2-3 By the seventh day God had finished the work he had been doing; so on the seventh day he rested from all his work. And God blessed the seventh day and made it holy, because on it he rested from all the work of creating that he had done.
(Websites referenced: http://jewsandjoes.com/what-is-the-meaning-of-shabbat-shalom.html, http://yehudafm.wordpress.com/2012/02/18/what-does-shabbat-shalom-mean/, http://briangan.ms11.net/personal/dictionary.htm. Please know that I don't endorse any of the content of these websites, as I have not reviewed them more than the specific pages viewed for this post.)
Sunday, September 15, 2013
Saturday, September 14, 2013
Promotions and Firings
I always intend to blog more frequently, but it just doesn't work out at this time! I have so many ideas that come to me and get jotted down. Some are still on paper at this time. I hope they make it here some day. :-)
The other afternoon, my daughter and I were having a conversation. It started with her saying that she loved Jesus' cross best because he didn't stay on it. Then she mentioned the two criminals who were crucified with him - one who would be with Jesus in heaven, and one who wouldn't (Luke 23:39-43). She then said she was praying for a family friend of ours, because they don't believe in Jesus as the Son of God as we do, and she prayed that this person would some day. She wants to see this person in heaven some day.
I don't remember all of the conversation, but it got me thinking - and I don't know quite how it took the course that it did, but here it is. In a very small way, it can be related to promotions and firings in a place of employment. We are all working together and then someone gets promoted or fired. If they are promoted, we are happy for them and we know they have gone on with achievement, recognized for their work, to better benefits, etc. If they are fired, we hurt for them because we know they will have hardships - searching for a new job, loss of pay and benefits, etc. Both ways, they are not in the same "office" any more and we've lost some physical/social relationship with them.
We all have a purpose in this life, whether we choose to accept it or not. God has a will about what we will do, who we will impact, etc. When that job is completed, whether successfully (leading to promotion) or unsuccessfully (leading to firing), we leave the position. Maybe the position is left empty or eliminated. Maybe someone else will come to fill it, continuing the mission set before the person who was there previously.
Earlier this week, we attended a visitation for an individual from our church and the discussion came up with the family that they felt both happy and sad - happy that they knew she was in heaven, and sad because she wasn't still here with them. That is how it is for believers who know their family member/friend knew God and believed in Jesus. It is a far different story when believers know the individual did not have such a faith. It hurts more. There is not a happy/sad feeling. It is a sad/sad, a heart hurt, a mourning. There is not the joy of knowing they have a renewed body, unspeakable peace and joy, and are living with the almighty king and others who have gone before. You know, I sometimes feel the same pangs of grief and pain for those who are still living, because I know they are so turned against or away from God. It really will take a miracle for some of them to turn to Him, and I don't see anything in them that even wants to consider it.
So, after you complete the job that has been given to you, what's your next step? Are you going to be one whom the Boss says "well done," (Matthew 25:21,23; Luke 19:17) and you get promoted, or are you going to be to be fired. By the way, did anyone else catch the connection between being "fired" and the fires of hell?
I can tell you sincerely that I pray for you with all earnesty for you to know God and live for Him - even if I don't know you personally. Maybe we'll meet some day in heaven! (...if not before then.)
The other afternoon, my daughter and I were having a conversation. It started with her saying that she loved Jesus' cross best because he didn't stay on it. Then she mentioned the two criminals who were crucified with him - one who would be with Jesus in heaven, and one who wouldn't (Luke 23:39-43). She then said she was praying for a family friend of ours, because they don't believe in Jesus as the Son of God as we do, and she prayed that this person would some day. She wants to see this person in heaven some day.
I don't remember all of the conversation, but it got me thinking - and I don't know quite how it took the course that it did, but here it is. In a very small way, it can be related to promotions and firings in a place of employment. We are all working together and then someone gets promoted or fired. If they are promoted, we are happy for them and we know they have gone on with achievement, recognized for their work, to better benefits, etc. If they are fired, we hurt for them because we know they will have hardships - searching for a new job, loss of pay and benefits, etc. Both ways, they are not in the same "office" any more and we've lost some physical/social relationship with them.
We all have a purpose in this life, whether we choose to accept it or not. God has a will about what we will do, who we will impact, etc. When that job is completed, whether successfully (leading to promotion) or unsuccessfully (leading to firing), we leave the position. Maybe the position is left empty or eliminated. Maybe someone else will come to fill it, continuing the mission set before the person who was there previously.
Earlier this week, we attended a visitation for an individual from our church and the discussion came up with the family that they felt both happy and sad - happy that they knew she was in heaven, and sad because she wasn't still here with them. That is how it is for believers who know their family member/friend knew God and believed in Jesus. It is a far different story when believers know the individual did not have such a faith. It hurts more. There is not a happy/sad feeling. It is a sad/sad, a heart hurt, a mourning. There is not the joy of knowing they have a renewed body, unspeakable peace and joy, and are living with the almighty king and others who have gone before. You know, I sometimes feel the same pangs of grief and pain for those who are still living, because I know they are so turned against or away from God. It really will take a miracle for some of them to turn to Him, and I don't see anything in them that even wants to consider it.
So, after you complete the job that has been given to you, what's your next step? Are you going to be one whom the Boss says "well done," (Matthew 25:21,23; Luke 19:17) and you get promoted, or are you going to be to be fired. By the way, did anyone else catch the connection between being "fired" and the fires of hell?
I can tell you sincerely that I pray for you with all earnesty for you to know God and live for Him - even if I don't know you personally. Maybe we'll meet some day in heaven! (...if not before then.)
Tuesday, August 6, 2013
People-Watching
In early July, my husband and I spent a little less than 48 hours to ourselves over a weekend. One morning at breakfast, I was watching others around me and noticed that they were all doing the same thing - watching people around them! How interesting that just about everyone was people-watching.
It really is part of our human character isn't it? We always watch others. We want to see what they are doing and how they are doing it, what they have or don't have and what they can get, who they are with, etc. People-watching can lead to things considered sin in the Christian life - envy, jealousy, coveting, sense of entitlement, sense of self-importance or "better than them" attitudes, gossip, judging incorrectly, etc. Ouch. But it's true, isn't it? We think things like, "Look at what they're wearing," or "I can't believe they just spoke to their children like that."
Maybe we should avoid people-watching. Then we could avoid all those opportunities to sin, right?
Then again, I realized the good that can come from watching others as well. What we see in others can have a positive effect on us, not just a negative one. Like the "pay-it-forward" concept - one person does something nice for someone else and, in turn, the second person does something nice for someone else. If we see a person helping another individual pick up their spilled popcorn, then we may think how nice it was that they helped, and hopefully then think that we could have done the same thing, or something similar.
As Christians, we are called to be examples of God's love.
*James 1:27 Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.
*1 John 3:17 If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be that person?
*1 John 4:8 Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.
*Matthew 5:14-16 "You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.
* 2 Corinthians 5:20 We are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ's behalf: Be reconciled to God.
Some thoughts to take away from this:
1. When you people-watch, look for the good. Give people the benefit of a doubt, because you don't know them and everything they have going on in their lives. Don't be too quick to judge.
2. Pray for the people you see. I read something about this once and really started just praying for people that I've seen walking down the street, sitting in restaurants, etc. It can be amazing to intercede for people you don't even know. I think about it as "pray as you go" praying.
3. Be the good example. Live in such a way, with such an undeniable integrity, that others will be drawn to that and want to live what they see in you. Show them Jesus through your words, actions, gestures, etc.
It really is part of our human character isn't it? We always watch others. We want to see what they are doing and how they are doing it, what they have or don't have and what they can get, who they are with, etc. People-watching can lead to things considered sin in the Christian life - envy, jealousy, coveting, sense of entitlement, sense of self-importance or "better than them" attitudes, gossip, judging incorrectly, etc. Ouch. But it's true, isn't it? We think things like, "Look at what they're wearing," or "I can't believe they just spoke to their children like that."
Maybe we should avoid people-watching. Then we could avoid all those opportunities to sin, right?
Then again, I realized the good that can come from watching others as well. What we see in others can have a positive effect on us, not just a negative one. Like the "pay-it-forward" concept - one person does something nice for someone else and, in turn, the second person does something nice for someone else. If we see a person helping another individual pick up their spilled popcorn, then we may think how nice it was that they helped, and hopefully then think that we could have done the same thing, or something similar.
As Christians, we are called to be examples of God's love.
*James 1:27 Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.
*1 John 3:17 If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be that person?
*1 John 4:8 Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.
*Matthew 5:14-16 "You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.
* 2 Corinthians 5:20 We are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ's behalf: Be reconciled to God.
Some thoughts to take away from this:
1. When you people-watch, look for the good. Give people the benefit of a doubt, because you don't know them and everything they have going on in their lives. Don't be too quick to judge.
2. Pray for the people you see. I read something about this once and really started just praying for people that I've seen walking down the street, sitting in restaurants, etc. It can be amazing to intercede for people you don't even know. I think about it as "pray as you go" praying.
3. Be the good example. Live in such a way, with such an undeniable integrity, that others will be drawn to that and want to live what they see in you. Show them Jesus through your words, actions, gestures, etc.
Tuesday, June 4, 2013
Choices, Choices...
Daughter is finished with school for a few months, but we're still working on some things together. She has a workbook to do to help "bridge the gap" between the grades. I'm reading to her; she's reading to me; we're doing character studies. In my readings to her, we read from the Bible, a book we love from her curriculum this past year called I Heard Good News Today, and other books as she requests and we have time. I got a whole bunch of character studies (about ten?) from Confessions of a Homeschooler (www.confessionsofahomeschooler.com) and thought this summer would be a good time to use them.
Last week's character study was on humility (vs. shifting blame and making excuses). Daughter was interested in the topic and was ready to discuss and talk about examples of situations with me. One day, we were talking about taking responsibility for our own actions and words, and not blaming others. We were talking about how some people in the Bible had blamed others and what the consequences were for their choices. For example, Adam blamed Eve for giving him the fruit. Eve blamed the serpent for tricking her. Aaron blamed the Israelite people for forcing him to make a golden calf for them to worship.
I don't remember exactly how it came up or how it was worded, but Daughter said something about God knowing beforehand what each of these individuals were going to do. Then she asked something like, "If God already knew that they were going to choose the wrong thing, then why did He allow it?"
I told her that God gives us choices. He doesn't want to force us to love Him - He wants it to be our choice, because wouldn't it mean more to both us and Him that way? I told her that it's like me asking her if she wants ice cream or watermelon? I know what her answer is going to be (ice cream) but I still ask and allow her to make the choice herself. Then I asked her if she would rather be kind to her brother or hit him and receive a consequence? She said she'd rather be kind. I pointed out again that, although I knew what her answer would be (not wanting a consequence), I still gave her the opportunity to make her own decision.
Later in the day, Daughter asked why the tree (of the knowledge of good and evil - the forbidden one) was in the Garden of Eden and why God would have even put it there. Why wouldn't He just remove all sin. We talked again about how God gives us choices. We must learn to trust Him and not ourselves. We will love more purely if it's our choice and not forced upon us.
A similar topic came up this evening as we were reading about Cain and Abel in the Bible (Genesis 4) - when Cain killed Abel and then God asked, "Where is your brother, Abel?" Daughter asked why God had to ask where Abel was? Instead of answering her directly, I asked what she thought about it. She said God was giving him a choice. Good answer, Daughter! Yes, God knew, but He gave Cain the opportunity to own up to his sins, to turn from them and repent. Instead, Cain chose to answer angrily to God and lie about it saying, "I don't know," adding yet another sin to his list (anger, murder, lying...).
So, what choices are you making? Are you choosing God and His ways?
But if serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD." - Jeremiah 24:15
"No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money. - Matthew 6:24
You adulterous people, don't you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God. - James 4:4
Last week's character study was on humility (vs. shifting blame and making excuses). Daughter was interested in the topic and was ready to discuss and talk about examples of situations with me. One day, we were talking about taking responsibility for our own actions and words, and not blaming others. We were talking about how some people in the Bible had blamed others and what the consequences were for their choices. For example, Adam blamed Eve for giving him the fruit. Eve blamed the serpent for tricking her. Aaron blamed the Israelite people for forcing him to make a golden calf for them to worship.
I don't remember exactly how it came up or how it was worded, but Daughter said something about God knowing beforehand what each of these individuals were going to do. Then she asked something like, "If God already knew that they were going to choose the wrong thing, then why did He allow it?"
I told her that God gives us choices. He doesn't want to force us to love Him - He wants it to be our choice, because wouldn't it mean more to both us and Him that way? I told her that it's like me asking her if she wants ice cream or watermelon? I know what her answer is going to be (ice cream) but I still ask and allow her to make the choice herself. Then I asked her if she would rather be kind to her brother or hit him and receive a consequence? She said she'd rather be kind. I pointed out again that, although I knew what her answer would be (not wanting a consequence), I still gave her the opportunity to make her own decision.
Later in the day, Daughter asked why the tree (of the knowledge of good and evil - the forbidden one) was in the Garden of Eden and why God would have even put it there. Why wouldn't He just remove all sin. We talked again about how God gives us choices. We must learn to trust Him and not ourselves. We will love more purely if it's our choice and not forced upon us.
A similar topic came up this evening as we were reading about Cain and Abel in the Bible (Genesis 4) - when Cain killed Abel and then God asked, "Where is your brother, Abel?" Daughter asked why God had to ask where Abel was? Instead of answering her directly, I asked what she thought about it. She said God was giving him a choice. Good answer, Daughter! Yes, God knew, but He gave Cain the opportunity to own up to his sins, to turn from them and repent. Instead, Cain chose to answer angrily to God and lie about it saying, "I don't know," adding yet another sin to his list (anger, murder, lying...).
So, what choices are you making? Are you choosing God and His ways?
But if serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD." - Jeremiah 24:15
"No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money. - Matthew 6:24
You adulterous people, don't you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God. - James 4:4
Friday, May 24, 2013
Bickering Kids
There has been a lot of arguing between the kids lately.
* Yesterday morning, I read this verse during my quiet time:
Titus 3:9-10 But avoid foolish controversies and genealogies and arguments and quarrels about the law, because these are unprofitable and useless. Warn a divisive person once, and then warn them a second time. After that, have nothing to do with them.
Hmm, I should help my children avoid foolish arguments that are useless and unprofitable. I should help them to recognize their arguments as such. I may warn the person causing the argument a few times, and then separate them from me and/or the other child.
* This week's character study with the older child is on arguing. During yesterday's reading, the Titus 3:9-10 verse came up again. Another one that came up was Proverbs 17:14 - Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam, so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out. Commentary with the verse said "Help children stop quarreling before it starts. Remove the child who insists on arguing, enforce a stop to argumentative conversations."
Well, that really spoke to me, too. I need to continue teaching my children ways to avoid arguments. I've also been working to remove the argumentative child.
* Then, one more verse from our character study today:
Proverbs 22:10 Drive out the mocker, and out goes strife; quarrels and insults are ended.
Again, remove the child who is causing the disturbance with his/her unkind words and actions, and the rest of the negative situation with diffuse.
*Another verse that came to mind today while dealing with such an issue with unkindness and arguing with the kids was Proverbs 15:1 - A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
Of course, these verses could be applied in more situations than just with our children, but they have particularly blessed me over the last couple days.
* Yesterday morning, I read this verse during my quiet time:
Titus 3:9-10 But avoid foolish controversies and genealogies and arguments and quarrels about the law, because these are unprofitable and useless. Warn a divisive person once, and then warn them a second time. After that, have nothing to do with them.
Hmm, I should help my children avoid foolish arguments that are useless and unprofitable. I should help them to recognize their arguments as such. I may warn the person causing the argument a few times, and then separate them from me and/or the other child.
* This week's character study with the older child is on arguing. During yesterday's reading, the Titus 3:9-10 verse came up again. Another one that came up was Proverbs 17:14 - Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam, so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out. Commentary with the verse said "Help children stop quarreling before it starts. Remove the child who insists on arguing, enforce a stop to argumentative conversations."
Well, that really spoke to me, too. I need to continue teaching my children ways to avoid arguments. I've also been working to remove the argumentative child.
* Then, one more verse from our character study today:
Proverbs 22:10 Drive out the mocker, and out goes strife; quarrels and insults are ended.
Again, remove the child who is causing the disturbance with his/her unkind words and actions, and the rest of the negative situation with diffuse.
*Another verse that came to mind today while dealing with such an issue with unkindness and arguing with the kids was Proverbs 15:1 - A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
Of course, these verses could be applied in more situations than just with our children, but they have particularly blessed me over the last couple days.
The Potter's Fingerprints
I have always loved the visuals of God being the potter and us being the clay.
Jeremiah 18:1-6 This is the word that came to Jeremiah from the Lord: 2“Go down to the potter’s house, and there I will give you my message.” 3So I went down to the potter’s house, and I saw him working at the wheel. 4But the pot he was shaping from the clay was marred in his hands; so the potter formed it into another pot, shaping it as seemed best to him. 5Then the word of the Lord came to me. 6He said, “Can I not do with you, Israel, as this potter does?” declares the Lord. “Like clay in the hand of the potter, so are you in my hand, Israel.
Isaiah 64:8 Yet you, LORD, are our Father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand.
Romans 9:20-21 But who are you, a human being, to talk back to God? “Shall what is formed say to the one who formed it, ‘Why did you make me like this?’ ” Does not the potter have the right to make out of the same lump of clay some pottery for special purposes and some for common use?
I love the idea of God getting His hands dirty with us when he made us (Genesis 2:7). All other parts of creation, He spoke into existence, but when he created man, he "formed the man from the dust of the ground." So here's some imagery for you: He reached down and scooped up some dirt. He started to shape it, molding it and pressing it, until it became the shape He was wanting. He got his hands dirty. It reminds me of my kids pretending to be "Egyptian brick makers" last week (who would have actually been the Israelites from the time they were discussing). They got their hands all dirty with the dirt, grass and water they used to make little bricks. Back on topic - get this: God "breathed into [man's] nostrils the breath of life." How personal and intimate is that? He didn't breathe life into the other animals, or the trees and plants - just man, who alone were created in His image (Genesis 1:27).
I recently finished a Bible study by Gari Meacham entitled Spirit Hunger. The last section of it talked about the potter and the clay imagery and gave three pottery principles.
#1 - We don't want to be the clay; we want to be the potter. How true is that? We want to make the plans and say how things should go. We want God to get in line with us rather than us having to change and be flexible to get in line with Him. We want to decide the courses of life for ourselves, our spouses, our children - and sometimes even other people!
#2 - We want to look like other pots. This principle is all about the comparisons we make. We look at others and what we can see about their lives, and we want to be like them. But sometimes that is not what God has planned for us. We want to be a pitcher, pouring out the word of God, not the vase, living the Christian life He has for us, day in and day out in our current location (home, neighborhood, apartment complex, church, local community, etc.). Or maybe it's the other way around. Do you get the idea? During this study, I found myself thinking about a certain friend one day. I have looked up to her and the wisdom she has dispensed, that has shaped my life. I love how she lives what she believes, even when they are tough convictions that not everyone else will support. I used to always think I wanted to be like her and do things like she does. The thought came into my mind that day that, although I never said it quite like this, I wanted "to be that pot." As I've grown, and as I've gotten to know her better too, I see how we are similar and how we are different. I am thankful for both. I am thankful to be "this pot."
#3 - We want the process of becoming useful to be painless, quick, and explainable. Again, another true point in our drive-through, 3G/4G (or is it even higher now?), immediate-access kind of society? We have a question and we go to the internet - either on a computer or on our phones - to find ten different answers within just a few seconds. Or we go to the drive-through at a restaurant so we can have our food right away. We want to be presented with options, make our own choice, and then get our choice right away. Same thing with life. We want our children to behave, but it's not fun to go through the process of disciplining/training them. We want a certain job, but it requires years of training. We want to look a certain way, but it takes dedication to exercise and proper nutrition. We want a perfect marriage, but we aren't willing to change, to seek outside help, to make the extra effort - we just want things to be fixed immediately with as little effort or pain as possible. And we want all the answers. Obeying "just because I said so" can be hard, no matter what age we are. There are times, we might never know the outcome of the actions we take or the words we say. It's like sending money to a cause benefiting a far-away country, when you don't get an answer about exactly how your money helped a specific person, family, church, or group of people. You have to trust and obey.
A couple months ago, I ran across a previous Bible study I'd done by Jennifer Rothschild called Fingerprints of God. During that study, all the participants tried to write down each day at least one way they had been able to see God act - the fingerprints of God - in their lives. I decided I wanted to do that task again, to keep my mind focused on how God is working around me and in me. I encourage you to do the same, if you feel so led.
So, how is the Potter getting His fingers dirty in your life today? Are you letting Him mold you and shape you? Are you willing to trust and obey? What a beautiful vessel He wants to make you!
Jeremiah 18:1-6 This is the word that came to Jeremiah from the Lord: 2“Go down to the potter’s house, and there I will give you my message.” 3So I went down to the potter’s house, and I saw him working at the wheel. 4But the pot he was shaping from the clay was marred in his hands; so the potter formed it into another pot, shaping it as seemed best to him. 5Then the word of the Lord came to me. 6He said, “Can I not do with you, Israel, as this potter does?” declares the Lord. “Like clay in the hand of the potter, so are you in my hand, Israel.
Isaiah 64:8 Yet you, LORD, are our Father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand.
Romans 9:20-21 But who are you, a human being, to talk back to God? “Shall what is formed say to the one who formed it, ‘Why did you make me like this?’ ” Does not the potter have the right to make out of the same lump of clay some pottery for special purposes and some for common use?
I love the idea of God getting His hands dirty with us when he made us (Genesis 2:7). All other parts of creation, He spoke into existence, but when he created man, he "formed the man from the dust of the ground." So here's some imagery for you: He reached down and scooped up some dirt. He started to shape it, molding it and pressing it, until it became the shape He was wanting. He got his hands dirty. It reminds me of my kids pretending to be "Egyptian brick makers" last week (who would have actually been the Israelites from the time they were discussing). They got their hands all dirty with the dirt, grass and water they used to make little bricks. Back on topic - get this: God "breathed into [man's] nostrils the breath of life." How personal and intimate is that? He didn't breathe life into the other animals, or the trees and plants - just man, who alone were created in His image (Genesis 1:27).
I recently finished a Bible study by Gari Meacham entitled Spirit Hunger. The last section of it talked about the potter and the clay imagery and gave three pottery principles.
#1 - We don't want to be the clay; we want to be the potter. How true is that? We want to make the plans and say how things should go. We want God to get in line with us rather than us having to change and be flexible to get in line with Him. We want to decide the courses of life for ourselves, our spouses, our children - and sometimes even other people!
#2 - We want to look like other pots. This principle is all about the comparisons we make. We look at others and what we can see about their lives, and we want to be like them. But sometimes that is not what God has planned for us. We want to be a pitcher, pouring out the word of God, not the vase, living the Christian life He has for us, day in and day out in our current location (home, neighborhood, apartment complex, church, local community, etc.). Or maybe it's the other way around. Do you get the idea? During this study, I found myself thinking about a certain friend one day. I have looked up to her and the wisdom she has dispensed, that has shaped my life. I love how she lives what she believes, even when they are tough convictions that not everyone else will support. I used to always think I wanted to be like her and do things like she does. The thought came into my mind that day that, although I never said it quite like this, I wanted "to be that pot." As I've grown, and as I've gotten to know her better too, I see how we are similar and how we are different. I am thankful for both. I am thankful to be "this pot."
#3 - We want the process of becoming useful to be painless, quick, and explainable. Again, another true point in our drive-through, 3G/4G (or is it even higher now?), immediate-access kind of society? We have a question and we go to the internet - either on a computer or on our phones - to find ten different answers within just a few seconds. Or we go to the drive-through at a restaurant so we can have our food right away. We want to be presented with options, make our own choice, and then get our choice right away. Same thing with life. We want our children to behave, but it's not fun to go through the process of disciplining/training them. We want a certain job, but it requires years of training. We want to look a certain way, but it takes dedication to exercise and proper nutrition. We want a perfect marriage, but we aren't willing to change, to seek outside help, to make the extra effort - we just want things to be fixed immediately with as little effort or pain as possible. And we want all the answers. Obeying "just because I said so" can be hard, no matter what age we are. There are times, we might never know the outcome of the actions we take or the words we say. It's like sending money to a cause benefiting a far-away country, when you don't get an answer about exactly how your money helped a specific person, family, church, or group of people. You have to trust and obey.
A couple months ago, I ran across a previous Bible study I'd done by Jennifer Rothschild called Fingerprints of God. During that study, all the participants tried to write down each day at least one way they had been able to see God act - the fingerprints of God - in their lives. I decided I wanted to do that task again, to keep my mind focused on how God is working around me and in me. I encourage you to do the same, if you feel so led.
So, how is the Potter getting His fingers dirty in your life today? Are you letting Him mold you and shape you? Are you willing to trust and obey? What a beautiful vessel He wants to make you!
Friday, April 19, 2013
Women and Self-Image
Many women struggle with self-image issues. I had a friend just contact me tonight asking for verses on the topic. Here are some verses I found as well as some additional thoughts from me. I'm just praying that they are helpful for you or anyone else in your circle of family, friends, etc.
Proverbs 31:30 - Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
All of Proverbs 31 (because, other than the verse above, it mentions nothing about how a woman looks).
1 Samuel 16:7 - But the LORD said to Samuel, "Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart."
Psalm 100:3 - Know that the LORD is God. It is he who made us, and we are his; we are his people, the sheep of his pasture.
Psalm 139:13-16 - For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. (The whole of Psalm 139 might be good to read, but these verses pertained to this topic.)
1 Peter 3:3-7 - Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.
Something that came to mind for me as I looked at these verses tonight is that God is looking at the inside, not the outside. I'm thinking of many verses that say for us to consider and improve our minds, hearts, and tongues - but nothing about improving our outer beauty. If anything, it says to downplay the outer appearance and not be too showy (See 1 Peter 3:3-7 above).
I know I have struggled sometimes with self-image and the passage that I always remember in my relationship with my husband is 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 (especially 5). It says: The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. Even when I didn't/don't feel beautiful (or even "pretty"), I remember how important my man and our marriage is to me and that I adamantly don't want Satan to come between us - and where my attitude, avoidance, or whatever else has caused a void, I want God to redeem it - and I have to move in such a way so that He has the opportunity to do so. That often entails purposely fighting and putting aside my thoughts about myself and what I think my man thinks about me and changing the statements (lies) I hear into more positives.
I flipped through Song of Solomon tonight, too, because it is often true that our men do not see us the way we do. They think we are beautiful and incredibly desirable. It is hard at first, but if we persevere, we can begin to see ourselves closer to how they do. We have to voice it to ourselves, though, and really believe it when they say it. Take it into your heart and know it is true - that his opinion is all that really matters. You have to tell yourself, "He loves me," "He wants me," "He is happy with me and wants me to be happy, too" and other statements like this.
I don't know if it makes sense to you, but I feel love for all of you reading this and pray for you. May God free your minds from any bondage you may have regarding self-image.
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